Joan Marion nee Page Farid is
daughter of Ida Marion nee Rixon Page 1912 -1988
granddaughter of Alice Jean nee McLachlan Rixon 1880 - 1967
great granddaughter of Daniel McLachlan 1852 - 1917
great great granddaughter of "McLachlan of Avondale"
in AUSTRALIA since 1850
Aunty Grace
Grace Marion McLachlan 1887 - 1970
daughter of Daniel McLachlan 1852 - 1919
granddaughter of "McLachlan of Avondale"
in Australia since 1850
Your posture, deportment & dress
Suggested "aunt" would be more suitable means of address;
![Grace Marion McLachlan 1887 - 1970 photo abt 1906](1%20%20%20%20Grace%20Marion%20McLachlan%20%20%201887%20-%201970%20%20%20photo%20abt%201906.jpg)
Grace Marion McLachlan 1887 - 1970 photo abt
1906
But you were truly named Aunty
Grace
One full of patient love & giver of undeserved favours.
You did not aim to attract
affection
But your nieces & nephews glimpsed your love & loved you back.
![Grace Marion McLachlan - photo abt 1915 in Sydney NSW](2%20%20%20Grace%20Marion%20McLachlan%20-%20photo%20abt%20%201915%20%20in%20Sydney%20NSW.jpg)
Grace Marion McLachlan - photo abt 1915 in
Sydney NSW
You lived in the shadow of your
elder sister
Who was our Grandma & whose presence demanded attention.
Yet through your quiet
faithfulness
We knew you to be gentle, mischievous, honest & loving.
![Grace Marion McLachlan with four of her sisters - Cliffside at Manly NSW abt 1929](3%20%20%20Grace%20Marion%20McLachlan%20%20with%20four%20of%20her%20sisters%20-%20Cliffside%20at%20Manly%20NSW%20%20abt%201929.jpg)
Grace Marion McLachlan with four of her
sisters - Cliffside at Manly NSW abt 1929
I loved staying with you when I
was sent
To your house, for my edification or as your companion.
Even though there were no toys,
lollies or TV
YOU were there @ "Heath Cottage"; & there was a sunny kitchen porch
![Grace Marion McLachlan - home from 1940 with chn of sis Eva who died 1940 Glengrove @ Metz NSW](4%20%20%20Grace%20Marion%20McLachlan%20%20-%20home%20from%201940%20with%20chn%20of%20sis%20Eva%20who%20died%201940%20%20Glengrove%20@%20Metz%20NSW.jpg)
Grace Marion McLachlan - home from 1940 with
chn of sis Eva who died 1940 Glengrove @ Metz NSW
Where I watched you working
And where I ate frozen cream from the top of the milk sprinkled with
sugar.
There were prickly bushes with red
berries
And multi-coloured chooks who laid brown speckled eggs of all sizes.
![second photo Glengrove @ Metz NSW](5%20%20second%20photo%20%20Glengrove%20@%20Metz%20NSW.jpg)
second photo Glengrove @ Metz NSW
There was an old strawberry patch
From which I could eat all that my small hands could find.
There was a tin tub & a chip
heater
That would heat water; but it would make frightening sounds when lit.
Water was limited. Adjusting the
heat was tricky;
But it was never too much trouble for you to prepare my evening's bath.
![](8%20%20%20%20%20Grace%20Marion%20McLachlan%20%20-%20%20mature%20years%20%20-%20at%20Elaine%20Simmons%20wedding%20%20@%20Bathurst%20NSW%20in%201957.jpg)
Grace Marion McLachlan - mature years - at
Elaine Simmons wedding @ Bathurst NSW in 1957
There was conversation &
discussion
As you washed up in the large tin dish & I wiped with linen tea towels.
You informed me of the
Presbyterisn Catechism.
You taught how God's armour covers me like Christ's Cross as I put it on.
![Eva nee McLachlan Simmons - toddler son Bill Simmons - Grace McLachlan n cared for him following death Eva in 1940](Eva%20%20nee%20McLachlan%20%20Simmons%20%20-%20%20toddler%20son%20Bill%20Simmons%20-%20%20Grace%20McLachlan%20n%20%20cared%20for%20%20him%20following%20death%20Eva%20in%201940.jpg)
Eva nee McLachlan Simmons - toddler son Bill
Simmons - Grace McLachlan n cared for him following death Eva in 1940
You created your private space on
a veranda.
It was invaded weekly by a horde of children but you never complained.
I never heard you boast or gossip
I saw you serve others as loving duty & always with the utmost "grace".
![Eva nee McLachlan Simmons - twin daus Shirley & Elaine Grace Marion McLachlan cared for them folowing death of Eva in June 1940](Eva%20%20nee%20McLachlan%20%20Simmons%20%20-%20twin%20daus%20%20Shirley%20&%20Elaine%20%20Grace%20Marion%20McLachlan%20%20cared%20for%20%20them%20%20folowing%20death%20of%20Eva%20%20in%20June%201940.jpg)
Eva nee McLachlan Simmons - twin daus Shirley
& Elaine Grace Marion McLachlan cared for them folowing death of Eva in
June 1940
Yes, you were "Grace" in name &
deed.
Were you aware that you were loved & respected by all who truly knew you?
written by -
Joan Marion nee Rixon-Page Farid
during 2002,
@ Weston in Canberra, in the Capital Territory of AUSTRALIA
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