Mrs.
Jane Sinclair Quarterman Comer, b. 29 October 1905 d. 16 July 2005.
Daughter of David Sinclair Quarterman Sr. and Alla Irene Peek of Valdosta.
Married Walter Graves Comer of Americus, Ga.
Jane was
a strong-willed character. She had a hard life in some ways, but was very
optimistic and helpful to others. Nothing really got her down. She wasn't
going to let anybody else tell her how to do things, if she thought she
knew the right way. She lived alone in her own house until she was 95. At
99 years and 8 months she was the oldest relative any of us ever knew, and
according to the family history she and her mother started, the oldest
there ever was.
She was
frugal and forward-thinking. She said she was involved in starting Georgia
Teacher Retirement, and she lived to benefit from it; she had been retired
longer than most people's careers. She visited the site of the future
Presbyterian Home in Quitman, and she went there in the end, as she had
planned.
Education
Mrs.
Comer was a graduate of Valdosta High School and Valdosta State College,
and she had a BS in Education Supervision Elementary Schools from Georgia
Southern College and an MS in Education Elementary Principal from the
University of Georgia; she also studied at Duke University and Columbia
University.
Many
people in Moultrie were Mrs. Comer's students, from first and seventh
grades through her long years as principal of Winona Cox Elementary
School. She was always concerned with the academic curriculum and beyond.
For example, she borrowed a kiln, where she and her students and relatives
fired plates and other dishes.
Before
Moultrie she taught in Lowndes County, and an especially memorable year at
St. George, Charlton County, Ga., in the Okefenokee Swamp, where she tried
to bring not just book learning but also art and a Christmas tree, which
she said was the first they'd seen.
During
World War II, Mrs. Comer was Executive Secretary of the American Red Cross
of Moultrie.
Church
As a
child in Sunday School at the First Presbyterian Church of Valdosta on Lee
Street Jane learned to sing Jesus Loves Me in Japanese as part of a
mission presentation. In her later years she would tell that story and
then break out singing in Japanese. In the 1930s Jane attended Midway
Gathering. She helped with summer Bible School in the North Carolina
mountains with some of her Walker cousins. When she joined the Moultrie
Presbyterian Church she wanted to know all about its history, and was for
a time church historian.
Graves Comer
Jane
Sinclair Quarterman married Walter Graves Comer, September 1, 1940. He
died less than two years later, and their only child, a daughter, was
stillborn. Her cousin Marsha Q. McLean and Marsha's parents helped Jane
through this difficult time. Jane said her wedding band used to have a
series of flowers etched into it, but she had worn it smooth. Graves'
sister Ruth Comer and Jane called each other at 9 o'clock every night for
many years. Ruth and Duncan Sinclair's son Duncan Comer Sinclair and his
wife Jan and family have been invaluable.
Matchmaker
Mrs.
Comer introduced one of her teaching and Red Cross co-workers, Laura
Elizabeth Hargreaves, to her brother, David Sinclair Quarterman, Jr. He
would land his airplane on the field behind Jane's house to pick up his
new fiancée. They met in February and were married in June; they had three
sons.
Genealogy
Jane
loved her family history. She was always telling stories about family she
knew personally and detailing her latest lines of inquiry going back
hundreds of years, continuing research her mother started in 1918. She was
a 70+ year DAR member and she kept up active membership in many family
organizations, because she followed all lines back; for example, she was
an honorary life member of Clan Sinclair. She got the newsletters; she
visited the ancestral sites; she corresponded and visited. She was a
supporter of the Odom Genealogical Library and of the Moultrie Scottish
Gathering. One volume of the genealogy she organized has been published,
with the help of her brother, sister, and nephews: Quarterman Family of
Liberty County, Georgia, and Relatives.
Much more by and about
Jane is in that book.
Jane's Trips
She loved
to travel, hike, and camp. In 1937 she supplied the car for a trip her
brother organized with their sister Elsie, their cousin Helen Quarterman,
and friend Mary Small across the country to see the new Golden Gate
Bridge. She would take the train from Valdosta to Quitman to visit her
Aunt Janie Sinclair Jelks. Pictures show her on a camel in front of the
pyramids in Egypt, at ancestral castles in Scotland, and at Oxford in
England.
Jane
loved to drive to the mountains to dig and grind garnets with family and
friends, or to the beach to collect sand dollars and visit ancestral
cemeteries. She'd talk for half an hour and then say we must stop to see
this cousin or that friend or that genealogical correspondent. Boxes of
manuscript book would come out of the trunk of the car and into a
courthouse, or into the house of an old lady with an overgrown yard, or
the hilltop view house of the retired engineer who built Lake Sinclair.
Papers and promises of information would be exchanged, and we'd go and
stop more times for the rest of the day.
She kept
in touch with far-flung branches of the family, from Texas to South
Carolina to Scotland, through frequent correspondence.
Children
She was
devoted to children; especially her three nephews. She picked pictures of
Midway Church ("Georgia's Cradle of Liberty") and of a guardian angel for
her nephews' bedroom. She got a deal on photographs in Moultrie one year
in the mid-1960s, so she went to her brother's farm and got the nephews
for a picture that hung at the farm from then on. Many times in recent
years she said her grand-niece and grand-nephew are the future of the
family.
The
nephews and their children grew up stomping around cemeteries with Jane,
recording epitaphs, placing military service markers, or just visiting as
Jane talked about the people buried there.
Athens
Jane went
to Athens every summer for a couple of weeks to see her nephew and
grand-niece, usually before or after the Highland Games. There she always
watched the news and had some tidbit about what was going on; she was
never lacking for an opinion. She kept a page of things to check off
before going to the Highland Games at Grandfather Mountain. Sometimes it
had to be rewritten when it got too ratty, although often the old one
seemed to pop up next year. Elsie always brought the ham and silverware.
The Athens crew brought the tents and other things. Going up to
Grandfather there were stories to mark each spot along the way, about
hiking back in to the swamp to see her students, about hiking up a
mountain.
Grandfather Mountain
At the
games Jane made hot chocolate and hot cider. She also made her
grand-niece's kilt and bonnet; that was very cool. She had a big canvas
with pieces of tartan of the various clan or family names pinned to it.
Thousands of people would mill by and look at it and talk to Jane about
Scottish and Georgia heritage and genealogy. One year after she met a
clan
notable who was particularly voluble about family connections to nobility,
she remarked that most of our ancestors who emigrated from Europe were
farmers, merchants, teachers, preachers, and such, and it was they who
built this country. She was a fixture at the games for many years, walking
around with her tartan scarves. Everybody still asks about her.
Jane's House
No visit
to Aunt Jane's very dark and green and quiet house in Moultrie was
complete without a tour of the yard to see the blue tailed skinks and
chameleons. She always kept her yard immaculate with the shrubs and
bordered garden approach; in later years Curtis Rodgers helped. There was
a little creek in the back with a bridge across it that children feared to
cross.
In her
yard is a gardenia bush from where she first taught in the Okefenokee,
along with camelias, oak leaf hydrangeas, tea olive, hollyhocks, altheas,
pinkneya, azaleas, and climbing roses. The orange cluster montbrecia bulbs
are from her grandfather's place at the Ridge near Darien. The ginger
lilies in front are from her great-grandfather's yard near Midway.
Inside,
the living room and bedroom furniture was antique; at least one bedroom
set was from her parents. The pictures of her Sinclair relatives on the
wall went back more than a hundred years. The dining room table was
covered with carefully ordered heaps of papers for each family she was
researching, plus a filing cabinet of sources. She typed her manuscripts
and correspondence on a manual typewriter. Her sitting room had travel
guides and her major reference books laid out ready at hand, and another
cloth with tartans, this one plus clan badges.
Her dog,
Fuzzy, a grumpy Cocker Spaniel, lived to be perhaps 18 years old.
For
decades Jane had everyone put stickers on things in her house saying what
they wanted. "One day we'll have to go through that big trunk with the
petticoats to find what might be useful." She was very organized and
prepared for the inevitable; maybe because she was faced with it earlier
and more directly than most.
Jane gave
all her relatives the crabapple jelly she made and canned, or peach with
lemon, or ginger pear. Her own breakfast was always plain toast (sometimes
with jelly) and instant Folger's black coffee; sometimes cantaloupe. She
would offer a tomato sandwich with mayonaisse; sometimes with cheese. She
and her neighbor Doris Childs would have parties in the back yard where
Jane would serve the tomatoes she grew, sliced with salt.
Christmas Eve
At the
farm, Jane and Elsie continued their mother's tradition at the farm of
Christmas eve at the old house their father had left them. The children
would go up early to get the heat started, trim the bushes, set up the
tree, and get the lights on it right. The aunties always
had to
have oysters, asparagrus, ham, sweet potatos, and little sweet pickles, in
their own pickle dish. Later there were tea and tea cakes on the rolling
cart in the living room, with the winding clock, the peeling wallpaper,
and the bookshelf with glass shelf covers. Jane always used to talk about
the paintings in the house that she and Mary Small had done. There was
always the question of when to start handing out presents. The aunties
always got presents both in the old house and in her brother's house the
next day.
Jane Comer and John Beagle, GMHG camping
director
The Games
In 2000
the Grandfather Mountain Highland Games gave Jane and her sister Elsie
each an award for being the oldest campers. Jane started going in 1968 and
went every year from 1979 through 2000. While preparing to go to the games
in 2001 on June 30, Jane had a mild stroke at home; Curtis Rodgers found
her. She was hospitalized for a short time and was unable to return to her
home and went to the Presbyterian Home in Quitman, as she had long
planned. She died there peacefully in her sleep, with family present.
Visitation will be at Harrell-Faircloth Funeral Home in Moultrie 5-7 p.m.
19 July, followed by a graveside service at 10 a.m. 20 July at Sunset Hill
Cemetery in Valdosta, where we will bury Jane Q. Comer, wife of Walter
Graves Comer, beside her brother, sister-in-law, parents, and
grandparents. Readings will include "Crossing the Bar" by Alfred Lord
Tennyson. Hymns will include Jesus Loves Me, God Be With You (Till We Meet
Again), and Abide With Me.
She is preceded in death
by her parents, her husband, her daughter, and her brother.
Survivors
include a sister, Elsie Quarterman Ph.D. of Nashville, Tennessee; three
nephews: David Leon Quarterman and wife Cathy of Athens, Georgia; Stephen
Patrick Quarterman and wife Ann of Nashville, Tennessee; and John Sinclair
Quarterman and wife Gretchen of Austin, Texas; a grandniece: Margaret
Campbell Quarterman of Charlottesville, Virginia and a grandnephew, David
Nicholas Quarterman of Nashville,
Tennessee; step-grandnieces and step-grandnephews: Lindsey and Mallory
Phillips and James, John, and Adam Linton; and cousins Clark and Muriel
Quarterman.
In lieu of flowers,
please contribute to the Red Cross, or a charity of your choice.
"Crossing the Bar" by Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,
But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.
Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;
For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crossed the bar.
Resume Supplied by Mrs. Comer:
Graduate of Valdosta High School
Normal Diploma, Valdosta State College
BS in Education Supervision Elementary Schools, Georgia Southern College
MS Education Elementary Principal, University of Georgia
Studied at Duke University and Columbia University
Teaching Experience
Primary grades Lowndes and Charlton
Counties
1st Grade Moultrie Public Schools, 1930
7th Grade Moultrie Public Schools
Supervising teacher Georgia Southwestern College, Americus, Ga.
Exec. Secy. American Red Cross during WWII, Moultrie
Visiting Teacher, Moultrie
Supervising Teacher Coop. Valdosta State College
Principal Winona Cox Elementary School, Moultrie
Other Experience
State Committee Elementary Ed. "Communicating with Parent Bulletin"
published
Secy. Ga. A.S.T. Teacher of Year Moultrie Public Schools, 1956-7
VSC Staff--summer off--campus workshops for Teachers
Contributor to educational papers, books, magazines
Member of National and State educational committees
Member -- Delta Kappa Gamma in Moultrie, Delta Kappa Pi, Uni. Ga.
Named in Who's Who in American Education 1961 and 1962
Member and past president of Moultrie Pilot Club
DAR appreciation certificate, Seventy Years of Dedicated Service, April 12
2001
Clan Sinclair Association Certificate, Honorary Life Member, August 12
1999
Member, teacher, active member First Pesbyterian Church, Moultrie since
1930
Worked in Summer Daily Vacation Bible School in N.C. mountains |