I've been doing some
serious research on the language of "our" family and I suppose it would
apply to other ScotAms, too. For example, as a slim child and very slim
teen, my grandfather was always warning me that he'd have to tie me down
before I blew away. This past trip to Caithness (where his family is
from), I spent some time over on the coast climbing through the gorse (AAAACCCK!),
weeds, and heather, to located the foundational rocks of the last
crofter's cottages in Caithness when the walls were built to keep the
sheep in and the residents out. Except for about 12 families totalling
about 50-80 people, everyone else was cleared. The cliffs of Caithness
suffer quite blustery weather and the winds are extreme. The Clan Gunn
residents who were allowed to remain as wall-tenders and sheep-tenders
found out the hard way that if you do not tie the children down, they
indeed blow away. Those who were small or light weight were tied down
for safety purposes.
I have wondered from this
discovery if they may also have put rocks in their pockets. When my
grandfather (whose mother was from the auld country) would pick me up
after not seeing me for a while, he always remarked on my growth by
asking if I had rocks in my pocket or had I just grown some more.
Gives one pause when we
discover these things. I have no doubt in my family that the
practicalities of language in Scotland changed to fit the situation as
it became part of our American family. The words were phrases stuck on
the tips of greatgrandparent's tongues, and do not so easily leave the
brain when one is old. It's the recent memory that goes first. (Ever
hear someone say, I can't tell you what I ate for breakfast, but I can
tell you what dress I wore to the first day of school when I was 5?)
I'm interested in
connecting other phrases which may seem odd in American language to
phrases that seem all so normal to our historical family roots. The
problem I found is that I never knew "tie you down so you won't blow
away" was an odd phrase until it really clicked as I visualized the
children being tied down. I guess the best way to find these phrases is
to continue to travel, listen, read about our histories and share them
when we make such discoveries.
This is how our Highland
Games came to be -- by turning into sport what our ancestors did/do as
labor. While we aren't tossing to many trees around by hand anymore, we
all know that's where the caber toss originated. As a psychologist, I
can just see competitive brothers trying to toss trees around to prove
who is greater than the other. And I can see it traveling to their
friends. Teen boys even today do the most ridiculous things to prove
they are MEN. That's the joy of having boys.
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