FOR good or ill great changes have taken place, and
more are likely to occur, in the relative social and political
positions of the sexes. Women are excluded from political power on
the ground of their sex, and by way of opposing or of justifying
this condition of matters everything but sex is discussed. It has
been shown that woman is as clever as man; pays her rates at least
as promptly; can work as hard and at as varied occupations; is
capable of outstripping him in learning; shows as much intelligence;
is more moral; and can sometimes be a greater nuisance to her
neighbours. All which may be a very good reason for giving her a
vote, but does not alter the fact that there is a great difference
between the sexes. That may be no reason for excluding her from a
share in the direct election of representatives to Parliament, but
it is a fact that cannot be lost sight of and which seems to be
forgotten
when it is not deliberately minimised by both parties
to the controversy. Man is something more than his brain, and so is
woman. Indeed, their thoughts and their acts are often the outcome
of the condition of their other organs; and the attraction of one
sex for the other disturbs most frequently the calculations of
observers. Among the primitives in our own country the principal
subject of interest, after their means of subsistence—and
occasionally before even that—is the opposite sex; and if one may
judge by the books in greatest demand, those whose opportunities are
more varied are far from indifferent to the same subject. The young
man who is not stirred by desire to excite admiration in some
girl—perhaps in all girls— is an exceptional being ; at least he
feels uncomfortable in their presence.
The love of attracting attention is very common, but
while it causes men to do many strange things to obtain praise from
their own sex, it much more frequently moves them to extraordinary
actions in order to secure the admiration of women. Whether men or
women are most moved by this feeling it is impossible to say, but
the men are more likely to make fools of themselves. Their present
social position gives them greater opportunities to do so; for the
woman’s training and traditions are against her openly giving way to
her feelings, and when she does so the result is apt to be
disastrous. It is the commonest thing in the world to see young
people posturing to attract the attention of those of the opposite
sex, and their feelings may blind them to the consequences of their
conduct.
A too intense interest in anything else is fatal to
business, and the rule has no exception in favour of the amorous ;
so it is not uncommon for a lad to lose his place through
inattention to his work, the result of preoccupation in his love
affairs. In some social stations this condition of mind may lead the
lad into criminal courses. X 22 was an intelligent lad who had
drifted into crime and continued in it. He had not offended against
the law as a boy, though he had passed his early years in a part of
the town where the sights are appalling and the prevailing tone of
morals is low. He spent the later years of his boyhood in a suburban
village and went to work in that district. When he was about
seventeen there was an epidemic of “club dancings”; that is to say,
places where a number of young men, having hired a room and a
fiddler, charged others a small sum for admission to dance—girls
being admitted free—and divided the profits or the losses among
themselves afterwards. The dancers were usually the sons and
daughters of respectable people, but their behaviour after the dance
was not innocent. The more ardent among them became passionately
addicted to the practice of attending such places and dropped both
work and reputation in the process. The scandal of the thing
ultimately became so great that under the pressure of public opinion
the “clubs” were discontinued. At one time they were many in number
and spread over a wide area. The young man of whom I speak was an
enthusiastic devotee and went far afield at times to seek his
pleasure. Working from early morning and dancing till late at night,
it was morning again before he got home. He could not possibly keep
up both the work and the pleasure, and the work had to go. He had to
find money, and he got it dishonestly at less fatigue than by work.
This had its end and it finished him. After being in prison he found
the door of some of the clubs closed to him, but there were others.
He did not escape so readily now when he stole, being known; and
gradually he was shut out from the pleasures that had led him astray
and shut into the company of those who, like himself, had been in
prison. He was only one of a number whose downfall was attributed to
dancing ; but he had not the slightest doubt that if the dancing had
been between those of the same sex it would never have led him off
his feet. It was the sexual element in the matter that attracted
him.
In this case the man lost his regular employment
through absorption in his pursuit of women, but in many more cases
the situation is forfeited through dishonesty caused by the desire
to make an impression on some girl or to provide for her. X 23 was a
lad of good character, quiet in his manner, well educated, and
employed in a position of trust. He was serious and sober in his
walk and conversation, and appeared likely in time to become a
pillar of the Church and a model citizen. He was attracted by a girl
who was of good reputation, and there was never any suggestion of
improper conduct on the part of either of them. She lost her
situation through no fault of her own, and he placed her in a house
which he furnished at the expense of his employers, expressing his
intention to marry her later. There was no improper intimacy between
them. Those who knew him were surprised that he should be able to
make the provision for her that he did—surprised also at his choice
of her as a wife ; but that is not an uncommon attitude on the part
of friends—and equally surprised and pained when it was discovered
that he had used money which was not his own in order to set up the
establishment.
It would be easy to multiply examples of cases where
the relations between the parties are less innocent, and to show
that not merely young men, but men who are advanced in life, have
been driven by the attraction of the other sex to sacrifice their
position.
Women are not ignorant of their power, and the
criminal among them know how to use it to advantage. Because of
their sex they are able to commit many thefts and to escape with
impunity; indeed, a very large proportion of thefts from the person
are committed by women, or with their assistance. They attract the
man, go along with him, pick his pocket, and find some excuse to get
rid of him in a hurry. When he discovers his loss they are out of
reach, and in the great majority of cases he says nothing about it
to the police, as to do so would cause scandal about himself. Only
when the loss is too considerable to be borne, or when something is
stolen that cannot be replaced, is the theft reported ; and even
then it is difficult to convict the thief. X 24 is a girl of
twenty-six who has several times during the last eight years been
convicted of theft. She is a buxom and cheerful young woman, neither
a teetotaler nor intemperate, fehrewd, and possessed of a
considerable share of intelligence and humour. Brought up in a slum
district, she was early at work; and when she began her present
career she was earning honestly about fourteen shillings weekly.
Some time ago I was asked to see her on behalf of a lady who had
taken an interest in her from her appearance in court, and who was
willing to help her to a better way of living. She was perfectly
frank with me, and declined assistance on the ground that she could
do better for herself. She said that with very little trouble she
could make twice the amount to be gained by work, and with little
risk. “You ken weel enough, doctor, that the lady could do nothing
for me. She would put me in a place among her servants, maybe, and
that would be a nice thing for the servants! Na, na. When I find it
disna pay I’ll gie it up. As long’s the drink disna get a grip o’ me
I’m a’ richt; and there’s no much fear o’ that.” Like others of her
class, she does not live by prostitution, though her sex is her
decoy. She has no prejudice in favour of chastity, but she takes
very good care to run no unnecessary risks, and will find a means of
getting away from the man she may pick up—if possible with his
purse, but if not, then without it—before matters have proceeded to
an extremity.
Others acting in concert with male accomplices lure
men to houses where they are bullied and robbed; and this goes on
with a degree of impunity that would be amazing, were it not for the
fact that though the practice is well known, there are few of those
who have suffered loss of money who care to add to it the loss of
reputation that would result if they had to appear in court.
Blackmailing is another practice that springs from
the conduct of both men and women influenced in the direction of
vice and crime by sex impulses; and jealousy is a powerful factor in
the causation of some crimes of violence. Jealousy is not generally
looked for on the part of those who are themselves loose in their
conduct, but among them it may exist as intensely and manifest
itself as powerfully as in any respectable citizen. It seems to be
largely a matter of temperament, and to be to some extent existent
apart from the desire for exclusive possession. X25 was an
ex-soldier married to a woman of low morals. They had both been
loose in their behaviour and were both given to drink. He had on
several occasions assaulted her for her infidelities, but he
admitted that it was not jealousy that had caused him to do so ; and
he owned that he was just as bad himself. He went off to the war,
and in his absence she behaved very badly and took headlong to
drink. She lived with another man. On his return he took up house
with her, and the other man was a source of quarrel between them,
especially when they were drinking. He was admittedly jealous,
though there does not seem to have been any but a retrospective
cause for the feeling. One day in the course of a quarrel she
compared him with the other man to his disadvantage, and he savagely
set on and killed her.
X 26 was a sailor who was attached to a woman whom he
knew to be a prostitute. When he came to Glasgow he lived with her,
quite well knowing her character. He spent his money freely on her,
but could not keep her from her associates. One night she insisted
on leaving the house where they lodged. She had been drinking
heavily, and he tried to detain her. She insisted on going to the
lodgings of another man whom he knew; and when he endeavoured to
persuade her to remain where she was, she made a comparison between
him and the other that set him in a blind fury of rage and jealousy,
in which he killed her. The cases present similar features: a
tolerance of general infidelity; a jealousy of a particular
individual; and an explosion when the other was praised for certain
qualities.
The same kind of thing has occurred with women. One
day in the airing-yard of the prison a woman who was usually quiet
in her behaviour made a sudden attack on another who had been
admitted to prison on the preceding day. It transpired that the
assailant had heard that the woman she assaulted was living with
“her man.” The man was a bloated blackguard whom she had screened by
pleading guilty to a charge of theft in which he was implicated. She
herself was a prostitute, and when I pointed out that morally he
could not be worse than she in that respect she admitted the fact,
but added furiously that she would not allow that to take him from
her; although
she was ready enough to recognise his worthlessness.
It would be easy to theorise on these cases, and it might be
interesting; it is well to note them, for they show that crime may
result from passion in circumstances where it might not be expected.
The fact is that feelings the result of sex strike
far deeper and wider than many good people care to acknowledge ; but
the whole subject is one on which a taboo is placed and it cannot be
treated as frankly as it ought for that reason. The cause of
jealousy and the excitement of the feeling is not so simple as many
seem to think. It may be absent where there would appear to be the
strongest ground for expecting its presence, and present under
circumstances where it would not be looked for; and when present it
may induce criminal acts on a provocation that would appear small
indeed.
There are fewer female than male criminals and
offenders, but they are more likely than men to continue in the
wrong way when they set out on it, for it is more difficult for them
to recover. Women are much harder on one another than they are on
men; or than men are, either on their own sex or on women. This may
be one reason why so few of them go astray, but it also contributes
to keep the stray sheep from getting back to the fold. The girl is
more closely guarded at home and is more intimately associated with
her mother than the boy is. Even mothers who have gone to the bad do
not always want their daughters to follow their example; and I have
known those who lived by vice and crime who have sent their
daughters away from them in order to be trained in religion and
morals. Most of them cannot do that, but many do what they can, up
to a point, to keep them straight. A girl suffers more than a boy
from the neglect of a mother, and when to neglect is added bad
example it may have a fatal effect on her. In proportion to their
numbers there are more daughters than sons of criminal mothers who
take to evil courses.
Apart from the mother, there are districts of the
city where girls hear language and see sights that are not likely to
have a good effect on them. The girl is taught to repress herself
more than the boy and is trained towards secretiveness. The boy is
rather given to flaunt his new-found naughtiness and to be checked
for it or to discover of how little account it is. The girl may
nurse it to her harm. It is a mistake to suppose that because a man
or woman never uses objectionable language, or repeats objectionable
stories, they have not left an impression when heard. As a matter of
fact, the female side of any lunatic asylum is generally more
remarkable than the male side for the foulness of the language of
the inmates and the filthiness of their ideas. Among the sane
members of the community the opposite is notoriously the case, but
the insane are only repeating words that have lodged in their mind
when they were sane. The same thing is true of female offenders;
they outdo the men in the profanity and indecency of their language,
when they begin.
When as a result of their surroundings young girls
take to imitating their elders in vice they are much more dangerous
than boys. Every surgeon in a great city, if he is connected with
the administration of the law, knows that very young girls are
sometimes made the subjects of horrible assaults; but he also knows
that other girls as young incite and provoke assaults, and that some
among them make the most terrible and detailed charges against men
on no foundation whatever but that of their own imagination excited
by what they have seen. When men are guilty of certain offences
under the Criminal Law Amendment Act there can be no defence of
their conduct; they have no excuse for taking advantage of young
girls; but it is sheer folly to ignore the fact that there are girls
of school age in some parts of the city who deliberately importune
men. It is terrible that it should be so, but they are only doing
what they see their elders do and there is no use disregarding the
fact.
If the street is a bad playground for the boy it is
worse for the girl. She runs greater risks and her ignorance is as
vast as his. When she goes to work new perils beset her. Her choice
of occupation is more restricted, and her wages, though they may not
be less in the first instance, do not increase in the same ratio as
she grows to youth and womanhood. Whatever may be said for tho
higher education of women it is out of reach of the many. Most girls
have the idea that some day they will be married; and they are often
right. When this idea is present it is bound to affect their
actions. Marriage means for a man the holding on to his work; for a
woman it implies the giving up of her employment—at any rate, in
Scotland most men who marry try to keep their wives at home. Among
the poorer labourers this is not always possible ; but it remains
true that the great majority of married women are not industrially
employed. They have quite enough to do at home, and sometimes more
than enough ; but the fact that the home is to be their permanent
sphere of work, or the hope of this, makes many girls and women
careless as to the choice of their occupation meanwhile. It also
prevents combination among workers, to a large extent, and tends to
keep wages low. How some of them five on their earnings is a
mystery, but they do; and keep themselves in a condition of health
and fitness which will compare favourably with that of many of the
scientific people who prove by figures and standards that they
don’t. There is grave risk in it, however; risk that they should not
be asked to run. If they were not members of a family, each
contributing earnings to a common pool, and each undertaking a share
of the household work, many could not exist on the wages they
receive. That any large number of them are directly driven to the
street by the low rate of their wages is not, in my experience,
true.
Complaints have been made that the children of
well-to-do people accept lower wages and make it hard for those who
have to earn their living to obtain reasonable pay. This may be true
in a few cases, but it is not of general application. These people
do not compete at all in many occupations; their parents are not
foolish enough to let them do much for nothing; but they do
sometimes exercise an injurious influence on the other girls by
their presence. Girls are at least as vain of their appearance as
lads, and they are quite as much given to personal adornment.
Indeed, I think men will readily admit that women pay more attention
to their dress and are keener on ornaments than they are. Certainly
when one gets a new kind of hat-pin or “charm,” others must obtain
something to balance it. If a girl has a fund to draw upon apart
from her earnings she is likely to dress more expensively than her
neighbours, and the weaker sisters are sometimes tempted to adopt
extraordinary measures to keep pace with her.
In so far as a standard of dress is set up that is
beyond the earning power of the workers to maintain, girls who have
other resources than their wages are liable to exercise an injurious
effect on their fellow-workers. X 27 was a young woman of
prepossessing appearance and good manner. She had been employed in a
place of business in town. Her wages were small, and she had charge
of cash transactions to a considerable amount. She was quietly and
well dressed. She was arrested on a charge of embezzlement and she
admitted her guilt. She confessed that she had begun to take small
sums in order to keep herself “respectable,” and her peculations not
being discovered, she had continued to help herself. There was
sickness at home, and to relieve the pressure there she had taken
larger sums and been found out. In the course of enquiries I found
that there were other employees none of whom had her opportunities
of taking from the cash-box, but some of whom dressed themselves on
“presents” from gentlemen. There was room for suspicion that each
knew what the others had been doing. It was certain that they knew
that their earnings were insufficient to enable them to live and
dress as they did, and it was equally clear that in their cases they
had no resources at home to supplement their earnings.
There are some workshops in which the moral tone is
very low, and the association of young girls together in them has a
bad effect on their conduct. The ignorance of many men and women
with regard to the most elementary physical facts is remarkable.
Mysteries are made of physiology, as though innocence and ignorance
were synonymous terms. Fear takes the place of enlightenment, and
when a girl is seen to transgress the limits of conduct laid down
for her without the dreadful consequences they have been led to
expect, the others are apt to think they have been misled; and some
of them embark lightly on a certain course of conduct with a
confidence begotten of ignorance as great as that which once made
them timid. Young people are better to learn the truth about
themselves from those they respect and trust, than to be kept in
ignorance till some chance reveals a distorted version to them. X 28
was a man of the labouring class who was charged with contravention
of the Criminal Law Amendment Act. He had been a very hard-working
man, and for years had lived on little and saved the greater part of
his earnings. Then, as systematically as he had put the money past,
he started to get rid of it. He had nearly £200, and he proceeded to
spend about £2 a week on his “spree.” He drew the money from the
bank in small sums, and, doing no work meanwhile, he proceeded to
take enough drink to keep him on the right side of drunkenness. This
had been going on for over six months before his arrest. Early in
the course of his wanderings he had made the acquaintance of two
girls who were employed in a tailoring establishment in the city.
They spoke to him and made him certain proposals. This was in the
dinner-hour. In time he was introduced by one girl to another during
the succeeding four months, till he had dealings with seven in the
same establishment—that is to say, seven admitted the facts. Their
ages ran from fifteen to nineteen years, and without exception they
were all the daughters of respectable parents, to whom the story of
their conduct came as a severe shock. That story will not bear
repetition ; it was exceedingly gross. The facts were only
discovered in an accidental way through the illness of one of the
girls. She at first denied everything; but under pressure made a
confession of part of the truth, and, the charge being laid, enquiry
elicited the rest.
A large number of girls are still employed in
domestic service, though the tendency has been for them to seek
industrial work, where they are for some part of the day their own
mistresses. The spread of elementary education has been blamed for
the shortage in the supply of servants, but it is only one of many
causes for the change from the time when there were more girls
seeking work than places for them ; and girls are not likely to seek
service as a result of the railings of those who, to judge by their
utterances, are in need of some elementary education with regard to
their own position. There seems to be an idea fixed in their heads
that they have a right to be served by others, and that on their own
terms. If the schools have taught the girls that they are not bom to
do for others what they ought to be able to do for themselves, it is
something to the credit of the schools. Domestic servants have been
too long treated as though they were inferior beings, with the
natural result that their work has come to be looked upon as lower
in character than that of the factory or the office girl. A greater
independence of spirit and behaviour is permitted in those engaged
in industrial occupations than in domestics, and this has a good
deal to do with the preference shown for these pursuits.
Domestic service is a better preparation for married
life than work in a factory, but in spite of this it has very
serious disadvantages. It presents the form of family life without
the spirit. In a great many cases it has all the disadvantages and
few of the advantages. Those who are loudest in their complaints of
the degeneration of servants show quite clearly that they are angry
really because they no longer get girls to give not only reasonable
service, but the obedience of flunkeys. Girls in workshops are not
treated as domestics are; they would not stand it. Their wages may
be lower, but at least they are not looked upon as beings of another
creation than those placed over them. When people shun certain kinds
of employment it is not generally because they are foolish, but
because they believe that that kind of work is not worth having.
The servant in the house is too much in the house.
Her mistress is quite ready to assume that she should know all that
the girl is doing, but the confidence is expected to be all on the
one side. For the mistress to interfere in the girl’s affairs is to
show a proper interest in her; but for the girl to return the
compliment is impertinence. The girl is often subject to
unsympathetic supervision; she is seldom allowed out to associate
with those whose company she desires; her life is a monotonous and
exacting one; and in many cases she has as few opportunities for
seeing visitors as she has for visiting. That some should react
unfavourably to these conditions is not surprising ; and when they
are out they may show the same tendency to friskiness displayed by
that other domestic animal, the family dog. Many of them have few
friends near the place of their employment, and their work does not
provide them with the same facilities for forming friendships as
industrial employment does. If they do go astray the consequences
are therefore more serious, because they are to a large extent
thrown on their own resources, having few to whom they can appeal
for help or advice.
There are no workers who are more generally
industrious, honest, and patient, and who are more harshly judged.
Only those who go wrong seem to attract attention; at least it is
only they who are heard of; and in proportion to the large number
employed they are few. Their position away from their family leaves
them more exposed to the attentions of those of the opposite sex
than other girls, and when they succumb the consequences may be more
serious. If their condition is suspected or discovered the extent to
which they are considered members of the family soon becomes
apparent. The girl who is in this state has no illusions on that
subject. She knows quite well that she will receive no sympathy, and
that would not matter so much if she were not equally certain that
she will be turned out whenever the fact becomes known. She cannot
face her people. She fears the scandal she will bring on them, and
what she should do is a puzzle to her. What she tries to do is to
conceal her condition as long as possible. She knows quite well that
a time will come when it will unmistakably reveal itself, but
anything may happen in the interval. She refuses to think about the
future and lives in the present. The effort that should be expended
in making preparations for the event is spent in concealing its
approach; till some day she finds herself a mother. The habit of
concealment has become a part of her, and it asserts itself in the
state of pain and panic in which she finds herself, with disastrous
results to the child. X 29 was a girl about twenty years of age who
came from a mining district to domestic service in Glasgow. She was
a healthy girl and a good servant. One day her mistress had reason
to suspect that something had taken place in the house of which she
had not been made aware; and a search revealed the dead body of a
new-born child in an outhouse. The girl was arrested and sent to
hospital. In due course she was transferred to prison, where I had
to investigate the case with a view to determining her mental
condition. She told me the story bit by bit quite clearly. When she
became aware of her condition she took steps to hide it, and up to
the end she had been successful in doing so. She did this in order
to make up her mind what she ought to do. Sometimes she decided to
go home to her friends, and at other times she meant to apply to the
parish. Her health was good all the time. At last she made up her
mind to go home, and had written stating her intention, but saying
nothing about her condition or about staying there. The child was
born the night before the day she had fixed for her visit. She was
taken by surprise, and had no preparations made for its arrival. By
her actions she showed that she knew what was necessary in order to
attend both to child and mother. It cried out, and in her alarm she
stopped its mouth. It did not cry again, and she next set about its
concealment. She knew that she had killed it, but she did not think
this murder. She would have thought it murder if it had not just
been new-born. She had seen similar cases reported in the newspapers
as “Concealment of Pregnancy” and not counted murder. As she had her
day off to pay her visit she did so. She walked at least ten miles
in doing this. She told her friends nothing. She hoped to be able to
dispose of the body, but her mistress had found suspicious signs in
her room, and on a search had discovered the child. She was
curiously knowing in some respects, but her ignorance was as
peculiar as her knowledge ; and I had no reason to doubt the truth
of her story, which stood such tests as could be applied to it.
The case in its main features is quite
characteristic. There are some mistresses who, when they find their
servants in this condition, take steps to see that they are tended
in some way. They cannot be expected to keep them in the house, but
they do what can be done to prevent the mother and child suffering.
There are others who simply turn them out and take no
further interest in them; and it is the fear of this that leads to
concealment. If they would even act as mediators between the girls
and their people much mischief would be prevented.
Hardly ever does such a case as the above occur but
what there are letters to the newspapers demanding that the father
of the infant should be placed in the dock with the mother. The
mother is not there for begetting a child, but for killing it, and
the former act is not yet punishable by law. The general opinion
seems to be that men are continually seducing women, and I am not in
a position to say whether it is true or not. Judging from books, it
forms the subject of many stories, but I am here only writing of
that small portion of the world which has come under my own
observation, and in my experience it is grotesquely untrue. I have
heard the woman’s statement in the great majority of cases of
infanticide in Scotland during the last sixteen years, and I can
recall few in which she made any complaint against the father of the
child, although I sought for it. In some cases I was told that the
father had not been informed of the woman’s condition, although she
knew where to find him; and that he had been kept in ignorance
because she did not want to marry him. In the other cases the
conception seemed to be the result of intimacy that was temporary
and long past. I am far from suggesting that there are no bad men
who lead girls astray; what I say is that in this class of case
these are not the girls who appear as criminals.
The fact is that among a certain class of lads and
girls there is a degree of looseness of behaviour that is in
striking contrast with the officially recognised code of morals.
They take risks with a light heart, and the woman pays; not always
because the man shirks, but because any consequence of their conduct
is entailed on her by her sex. The girl knows this as well as the
lad, but neither of them considers consequences at the time. An
acquaintanceship begun innocently enough may insensibly and by
degrees become something more, not as the result of consideration,
but quite independent of anything in the way of thought. If
consequences were certain it might be different. It is difficult to
apportion blame and it is not very profitable to try ; but it is
quite certain that the woman leads the man as much as he leads her
to misconduct. Child murder is no necessary consequence of his act,
and there is no sense in assuming that he knew the girl’s condition
and deserted her, when the fact can easily be ascertained.
It would be a great mistake to suppose that girls who
do not preserve their chastity are necessarily bad. It is largely a
question of manners and customs. They would quite readily admit that
it is wrong to be unchaste, as many an untruthful person will admit
it is wrong to lie; but they do not seem to suffer in self-respect,
nor greatly in the esteem of others, if they yield themselves to the
lad who is their sweetheart for the time. Their conduct may be
suspected; but in the absence of proof, and if decency is observed,
their morals are taken for granted.
Every professional man knows that there are very many
different standards of conduct in Glasgow. The doctor cannot shut
his eyes to the fact if he would ; the lawyer during the time he
acts as Agent for the Poor sees and hears enough to convince him
that the professed and the working standards of conduct are
different; and even among those connected with their Churches
clergymen occasionally find some who have to get married as a result
of their behaviour.
The girls who misbehave in this way may be reviled as
prostitutes, but that is utterly to fail in judging them. That they
are no worse than the men goes without saying; but there cannot be a
standard for the woman and another for the man, though in practice
it is more frequently the moralists who try to make one—not by their
words, but by the effect of their judgment. The same girl who has
given herself to men is sometimes the most bitter in her
denunciations of prostitutes; but on the subject of prostitution I
do not propose to enter, for any real consideration of it would
involve a plainness of speech on which it would be unsafe to
venture.
This must be said, however, that the woman who goes
astray is treated shamefully by the law, which operates to drive her
deeper in the mire and causes reformation to be more difficult for
her than for any other kind of offender. Any proposal to place these
poor souls more completely under the domination of officials,
medical or police (whether made on the specious pretext of public
health or public morals), would intensify the difficulty, and would
result, as it would deserve, in increasing the evil it sought to
remedy. It is bad enough that any members of the community should
become slaves to the vices of others, but it would be worse to
confirm them in their slavery in order to protect those whom they
serve.
In proportion to the number of offences committed by
women bigamy appears to be more common than it is among the male
offenders. The reason is largely economic, but the method of its
operation is dependent on sex. The woman wants a home, but if she
were not a woman that is not the way she would choose to get one.
She could get established, but her sense of propriety will not allow
her to accept the position without the form of marriage, even
although she knows the form to be illegal. In many cases, however,
she does not know this. She may have ground for a divorce by reason
of the desertion of her husband or his misconduct; but the ground
for divorce and the ability to obtain one are different matters. If
divorce is to be permitted there does not seem to be any reason why
it should be refused to those who cannot afford to go to law to
obtain it. If one of the parties to a marriage gives cause for
divorce the need for it will be the greater in proportion to
poverty, for people are less able to keep out of each other’s way if
they are living together in a small house than would be the case if
they had more room; and if they are separated the economic
disadvantages are not less. Yet these are the very people who are
least able to obtain relief; their poverty ensures that. When they
go through the form of marriage with some other we pay the cost of
their imprisonment. The money would be better employed in setting
them free from the contract which has gone wrong. Some of them
voluntarily give themselves up in the belief that their imprisonment
will break the former marriage. Our judges have become more and more
inclined to deal leniently with such cases; reserving their heavy
sentences for those which show moral turpitude; and the number of
these is small. To the woman there is something in the form of
marriage which enables her to preserve her self-respect, and the
“marriage lines” are a testimony to others. It is a queer condition
of affairs, in their view, that allows them to live with a man if
they do not go through a ceremony of marriage with him, and which
sends them to prison if they do ; for they cannot be expected to see
that the rights of property may depend on the prohibition of conduct
such as theirs. |