VIRGIL, in the second Georgic, gives a
charming picture of the husbandman’s life:—"O! too happy
husbandmen," he says "if they only knew their blessings.
For them, of herself, far from the clash of arms, the
earth, all righteous, pours from her soil an easy
sustenance." Then he shows that though they have not the
noble mansions and the manifold luxuries and pleasures of
the rich, they have what is still better:—"Yet a life
secure and quiet; a life that is free from guile, and
enriched with various treasures; yet hours of ease in open
fields, grottoes, and living lakes, and cool Tempe vales,
and the lowing of kine, and soft slumber beneath the trees
are not wanting; theirs are the woodlands and the haunts
of wild beasts, and youths inured to toil and accustomed
to little; the sacred rites of the gods, and fathers held
in reverence." Cowper, Thomson, Burns, and others of our
poets have also sung of the pleasures of a country life.
Ruskin says:—"To watch the corn grow or the blossoms set;
to draw hard breath over ploughshare or spade; to read, to
think, to love, to pray—these are the things that make men
happy."
The object of this chapter is to give a
sketch of home life in our parish as it was lived in the
first quarter of the century. The old people were careful
to keep up old customs. The week between Christmas and the
New Year was regarded as in a sense sacred. No labour was
done, unless looking after the beasts, and other works of
necessity and mercy. To give a survival of this old
belief. Said Lachlan Macbean to his neighbour Thomas
Grant, on Christmas morn (1800), "M bheil sibh deas
Thomais?"— "Are you ready, Thomas?" that was, to go to
the games. " Chan eil, Lachlain; gun toireadh Dia
maitheanas domh, b' eiginn domb greim chuir air mo brog
mu'n burrain mi falbh"—"No, Lachlan, may God forgive
me, I had to put a stitch in my brogue before I could go
out." "Dia, eadar misc ‘s do chuideachd" - "God be
between me and your company," was the reply. Even such
simple work as mending a shoe was regarded by these old
folks as putting a man under ban, so that his company for
the day was not desirable. It was a happy time. Kindly
greetings were heard everywhere. "Bliedhna mhaith uir
dhuibh"—"A good New Year to you," was what one said to
another as they met. Out of doors the time was spent in
target-shooting, playing ball (camag), and other games,
the young taking an active part, and the old looking on,
with kindly interest, and many a backward glance to the
days that had been. In the house the feast was spread, and
friends met and made merry together. Scott says:-
"A Christmas gambol oft would cheer
The poor man’s heart through half the year,"
and this agrees with the Gaelic
proverb, " Ollaig dhon gun bhrigh, m' nach maireadh i
dhuinn gu feill Bride"—"Christmas poor and sapless,
that did not last to the fair of St Bride (1st February)."
No doubt the time had its temptations. Evil was mixed with
good, but that, alas, is the common danger wherever people
come together. The Rev. Mr Martin used to speak of
Christmas as "An Ollaig dhubh" - "the black
Christmas," perhaps it was from his experiences in Skye
and Inverness rather than Abernethy. The time for
beginning work in the fields depended upon the weather.
Sometimes in open seasons the plough would be going in
January or February, but usually little was done before
March. The old saying is Biodh e fuar na biodh e blath,
bi glic as cuir do shiol sa Mhart," "Be it cold or
warm, be wise and sow in March." Another common word is
"A chiad Mharl leig seachad; an dara Mart ma 's eudar, an
treas Mari cuir sa pholl" "The first March (Tuesday)
let pass, the second if need be, the third sow in the
pool." This was according to the old style, and the third
week of March would be the first week of April new style.
When the sowing was over, mossing began, an
important time before coal had been introduced, and when
people were dependent on peats for fuel.
The School Examination was an
important event. It was generally held about the end of
March. Some have spoken in derision of these examinations,
but there can be no doubt that, as a rule, they were of
the highest advantage and had a salutary effect both upon
the master and the children. In our parish, prizes
obtained by subscriptions from parents and friends were
always given to the most deserving scholars, and in this
way not only were life and emulation kept up, but many a
good book circulated when books were rare, fitted to exert
a healthy influence upon the young.
Fastern’s E’en (G. Là Inid), though
it had lost its meaning as the evening before the first
day of Lent, was notable as the time for the annual
Cock-fight. Probably this was a survival of the
carnival revels which used to he held at that season in
Roman Catholic days. It is said that cock-fighting came
from Greece, and that it owed its origin to a speech by
the great soldier Themistocles. It was very popular in
England from the days of Henry II. It is said to have been
introduced into Scotland about the beginning of the
eighteenth century by a fencing master named Mackric, and
spread rapidly. With the milder manners of our time it has
been abolished, but it continued in the Highlands till
recently, and there are people still living, the writer
being one, who took part in these contests in their youth.
In this parish the custom was observed in the following
way:— Lists were made out the day before Shrove Tuesday.
Tickets were then drawn from a bonnet, for which each boy
paid fourpence. Next day the competitors assembled with
their friends, girls were excluded. The end of the school
was fitted up for the fight, and the head scholar
generally presided. He called out No. 1, No. 2, and those
who held these tickets set down their cocks. Perhaps two
combats went on at the same time. When all the cocks had
their turn, judgment was given. An Righ, the King,
was the cock that had vanquished the greatest number. Then
came the Bhan-righ, or Queen, then the Ballach,
or Knave, and last the Saighdearan, or
Soldiers. The cocks that were killed, and such as did not
fight and were declared fugies, became the
perquisite of the Dominie. The entry money also fell to
him. The owner of the King was duly crowned with a tinsel
crown, decorated with ribbons, and used to be kirked
on the Sunday, and also to claim certain privileges in
the School, such as interceding on behalf of culprits for
some time after (till Donaich na Càisge). The last
cock-fight in Strathspey is said to have been held at
Cromdale about 1837.
The two principal Fairs were
George Fair and Figgat Fair. The former properly belonged
to Abernethy, and used to be held at Balnagown, and in
earlier days in the churchyard but when the new village of
Grantown was established, it was transferred to it. These
fairs were largely frequented. They broke the monotony of
the year, and old and young flocked to them, some for
business, all for pleasure.
Baptisms, Weddings, and Funerals
diversified life then, as they do still. Baptisms were
at the homes, but marriages were generally performed in
church. Down to the beginning of the century, Lykwakes
were common. Sir AEneas Mackintosh says in his notes:—"The
body is dressed and laid out, as in other countries;
during the night all the deceased’s Relations and
acquaintances convene to watch the Body, and this ceremony
is called Late Wake; a good fire is put on (if in winter),
plenty of whisky and snuff goes round, the young folks
play at several Country Games, while the graver sort tell
tales of Ghosts and Hobgoblins, every word of which they
believe. As late as the year 1740 Music was introduced,
and the nearest Relation began the dance. It must have
been really ridiculous to see a Widow taken to dance, with
tears in her eyes." This agrees with the custom still in
use in Spain, as shewn in Philips famous picture of the
"Gloria." One of the games common in Strathspey was
called Marbhadh a Bhodaich—-Killing the Bodach. It
was played in this way:—First a stout pin was fixed in the
floor. This had a bonnet placed on it, and was called the
"Bodach." The challenger stood at the further end
of the room. Two short sticks were given him. Taking one
in each hand, he bent forward till they reached the
ground, and he could rest his weight upon them. Then he
called out to the "Bodach" that he was coming.
Carefully poising himself, he lifted one stick and made a
step forward; then he did the same with the other, and so
on. Some one of the bystanders asked him, "What did the
‘Bodach’ do to you?" The answer perhaps was, "He
murdered my father," or such like. This led to further
dialogue. There was ample scope for wit and satire. Under
the convenient form of the "Bodach," popular
feeling as to ordinary persons and things, even as high as
lairds and factors, found an outlet. Perhaps the first who
tried the adventure failed. Others also came to grief. At
last, in spite of inequalities in the floor, and all the
flouts and jeers that could be brought to bear on him, the
hero of the night makes his way close to the "Bodach."
This was the crisis. Face to face with his victim, he
addressed him by name, proclaimed his crime. and poured
out on him his wrath and scorn. Then deftly raising his
right hand, he smites him to the ground, amid the shouts
and laughter of the spectators.
Funerals were decently conducted, but
sometimes they were marred by excess in the use of whisky.
The people came from great distances, perhaps in cold and
stormy weather, and it was thought mean and unkind not to
treat them liberally, but this was sometimes carried too
far. On one occasion of a funeral, the men were assembled
in the barn, and being served with refreshments. Already
two rounds of whisky had been given, and one of the
attendants asked the master if he should give any inure.
Wait till I see," he replied. Then he went and listened at
the door, and came back saying. Give them another round,
for I like to hear a loud buzz among them before we start,
like bees in a hive before they swarm!" There has been a
great improvement as to the conducting of funerals; there
is not only sobriety, but more of solemnity, and there is
almost always prayer at the grave as well as in the house.
The Sacrament of the Lord’s Supper
was usually dispensed in July. The services began on the
Thursday, as fast-day. On the Friday a prayer meeting was
held, but the custom of "speaking to the question" was not
in use. Saturday was the preparation day, and Monday was
set apart for thanksgiving. The Sabbath was the great day
of the feast, "Latha morna-cuilm." The congregation
would be very large, as not only did all parishioners able
to come out attend, not a few coming who were seldom seen
on other Sundays, but also many people from all the
parishes round. The services were in both Gaelic and
English, the Gaelic being in the church-yard and the
English in the church. All the tables were served in the
church. The minister had always the aid of two or three of
his brethren Mr Kennedy, Redcastle; Mr Fraser, Kirkhill;
Mr Maclachlan, Moy; Mr Shepherd, Kingussie; and Mr Grant,
Cromdale, were the ministers who usually assisted Mr
Martin. Their services were greatly appreciated. The week
was a holy week, like the Passover among the Jews. It was
looked forward to with hope, it was passed through with
sacred awe, and it was remembered with thankfulness, as a
time of refreshment and blessing from the Lord. By many
its hallowed influence was felt through all the year.
The Harvest was a time of much
anxiety. When all went well there was gladness, but if
frost came early, and the season was cold and inclement,
the hearts of many were made sad and fearful. The corn was
cut with the hook—it was before the day of reapers, though
scythes had begun to be used—and a pleasant thing it was
to see a band of shearers at work, and to watch their
progress from day to day, till the last sheaf was cut, and
the "Clyack"‘ was carried home, to be set up in some
honoured place till the next season, as a token of rest
and hope. The harvest closed with Harvest Home,
when master and servants, old and young, feasted and made
merry together. Nor was the "joy of harvest" seen only in
the home gatherings, it was also shewn, in a higher
manner, in the Church, when the people came together to
render thanks unto the Lord for His goodness and His
wonderful works.
The historian Lecky tells us that
Sea-bathing was brought into repute by a book on
consumption, by Dr R. Russell, published in 1750. Cowper
refers rather slightingly to this new custom in his poem
on " Retirement "
"But now alike, gay widow, virgin,
wife,
Ingenious to diversify dull life,
In coaches, chaises, caravans, and hoys,
Fly to the coast for daily, nightly joys;
And all, impatient of dry land, agree
With one consent to rush into the sea."
Highlanders were great believers in the
virtues of salt water, and going to the Coast, "dol
thun na Machair," was an annual excursion with many.
It was thought a good thing if even a day could be spent
by the sea-side, or even a single dip got in the sea!
The Killing of the Mart was a
great day in the farm-houses. Much had to be done, in
cutting up, in salting, in making white and black
puddings, in preparing the tallow for candles, the horns
for spoons, and the skin for brogues and waistcoats. There
was always "fullness" in the house at such a time, and
while friends were remembered, the poor were not
forgotten.
The winters were long, and often
severe. What work was done was mostly indoors. Then might
be heard the cheerful sound of the flail in the mornings,
and the busy hum of the spinning wheel at night. When
supper was past there would be a pleasant gathering by the
fireside. Perhaps some neighbour came in, and the news of
the place was talked of, or some casual guest, like Josie
Watt, enlivened the evening with his whistle and his
songs. Many of the country girls were good singers, and
some may remember how eagerly they listened, in the days
of long ago, to the good old ballads of Sir James the
Rose, the Trumpeter of Fyvie, and the Baron of Brackley.
Crodhchailan was seldom left out, and on Sabbath evenings
the hymns and spiritual songs of Dugald Buchanan, and our
own Peter Grant, were often sung. There are two Gaelic
sayings, which may be cited to illustrate the custom of
our fathers at their "ceilidhs," or social meetings. The
first is, "A chiad sgeul air fear-an-tighe, 's gach
sgeul gu lath air an aoidh"—"The first story from the
host, and tales till morning from the guest." This saying
is one, like not a few others, that forms a link with the
East, and the days of the Arabian Nights and the good
Haroun Alraschid. Another is, "Am fear a th' anns a
chuil biodh a shuil air an teine"—" He that’s in the
corner let his eye be on the fire." ‘‘That is a pleasant
reminiscence," says Sheriff Nicholson, ‘‘ of the old
Highland life, calling up a picture of a cosy gathering
round the central peat fire, when stories were told,
riddles proposed, or songs sung. The person in the corner,
where a heap of peats was piled, was bound to keep his eye
on the fire, and throw peats on when required." (Gaelic
proverbs, p. 17).
"Hanc olim vitam coluere Sabini."
"This life of yore the antique Sabines
lived, and Remus too, and his brother; so I ween brave
Etruria grew, and Rome became the mistress of the world." |
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