Life at Wemyss Bay was
very calm, very peaceful, and full of joy. The few clouds that
overshadowed it from time to time only made the sunshine brighter by
contrast, as an occasional discord makes the harmony of music sweeter.
Friends were abundant, children and grandchildren vied with one another
in love and tenderness to the “old folks,” whose love for one another
increased in richness and beauty as the years wore on.
Everything that wealth and affection could procure was theirs to enjoy,
and above and beyond all there rested upon them the “peace of God which
passeth understanding."
But in the early summer of 1877 came the darkest cloud that had ever
overshadowed the life of Mr. Burns. One day in June, Airs. Burns, who
had previously been in unusually good health, was taken suddenly ill. At
first it was thought to be only an attack of rheumatism, but after the
lapse of a few days Dr. Kirkwood, the intimate friend and medical
adviser of the family submitted that it would be desirable to have
another opinion. Mr. Burns did not think it was necessary, having such
perfect confidence in the skill of Dr. Kirkwood, but when he quietly
reiterated his opinion and paused—in that pause the eyes of Mr. Burns,
“which had been holden,” as he said, were opened, and for the first time
he saw the critical state of affairs. Painful as it was to himself, he
was always thankful she was not to be left a widow.
Mr. and Mrs. John Burns were in Carlsbad at the time, and were
immediately telegraphed to return at once. While the anxious hours were
passing in Wemyss House, they were speeding home in hot haste, further
telegrams reaching them at every halting place. The end was not far off;
and the heart of Mrs. Burns was fixed upon her son’s return—she was, as
it were, keeping herself alive by sheer force of will until he should be
home again. Between them there was the most intense affection; they were
more like lovers than mother and son. All plans and purposes, hopes and
projects, were shared in common, and heart opened to heart in all the
little things of life, as well as in its greatest concerns.
One Sunday morning, the last but one she was to spend on earth, Dr.
Kirkwood endeavoured to rouse her from drowsiness by bringing in some of
the grandchildren to her bedside. She revived almost instantly, and sent
for one after another of the grandchildren, and then the butler, the
servants, and others, with each of whom she shook hands and bade a
tender farewell. She spoke to each one separately, thanking them for all
they had done for her, and giving a word of affectionate exhortation to
each. She spoke in a clear, firm voice, without a falter, and
discriminated accurately as to the character of each individual. Every
one to whom she spoke was struck with the appropriateness of the words
addressed to them. It was (as in patriarchal days) as if the veil of the
future were lifted, and words were spoken in the light of eternity.
One who was present remarked “that he had never heard purer English,
without a word out of place, and without the necessity of substituting
one word for another.”
Later in the day, she said very calmly, “Now, George, I want nothing on
my coffin but my name and age.”
But the end was not yet: with that wonderful love which is stronger than
death, she held on tenaciously clinging to life, and would not yield to
the ever nearing approach of the last enemy until she had once more
embraced her son. And then he arrived, and was with her till the change
came.
Very solemn and beautiful were those last days— spent in the calm, sweet
prophetic certainty that heaven was near, and that “immortality was
being swallowed up of life.”
“I have no triumphant joy,” she said, 'but calm confidence.” She sent a
message to her old friend Lord Shaftesbury. “Tell him,” she said, “it is
from the confines of Eternity.” On many occasions she repeated to her
husband the 90th Psalm. When she had uttered the words, “The days of the
years of our life are threescore and ten; and if by reason of strength
they be fourscore years, yet is their strength labour and sorrow,” she
paused and said, “I have had the labour, but not the sorrow.” One day
she said to him, “I must soon leave you, George, hut you will often
think of me, and always when you walk on these beautiful terraces.”
Those exquisite terraces he had made to gratify her wish.
Through all her life she had lived in pure and simple religious faith,
and when the set time came, He who had been with her through all life’s
long journey was with her as she entered the valley which leads into the
eternal light. “I feared I was not to see Jesus,” she said. “But I see
Him now; He is all my salvation.” Heath was deprived of its terrors, the
grave of its victory; and ere she crossed the narrow boundary which
divides the worlds, faith was lost in sight. “The crown! the crown! ”
she said, when articulation was almost gone; 'it is a bright reality.”
When all was over, the blinds were drawn down, but Mr. Burns said “Nay;
draw them up again: she is not dead, she has entered into fuller, even
eternal life.” Then he gathered his family around him, and Ann Fraser,
the faithful attendant of his late wife, saying he wished to incorporate
her with them, and read the fourth chapter of Galatians (in which is
told the spiritual significance of the life of Sarah, the wife of
Abraham), and after that he read the passages in the twenty-third
chapter of Genesis, referring to the compact made by the patriarch for
the burial of his wife in the cave of Machpelah. The old designation,
“Abraham and Sarah,” by which they had so long been known to Lord
Shaftesbury, was evidently in his mind.
After the reading, he offered prayer; and it was characteristic of the
man that in that hour of human desolation, his heart was resting so
peacefully upon the promises of God that he could command himself to
offer up words of extempore prayer. In his supplications he asked that
God would assist him in preparing for the mortal remains of his wife a
last resting place in the spot she loved so well.
A few days later, Mr. Burns wrote to an old friend :—
. . . Sixty years’ fervent love before and after we were able to have a
house of our own, has been terminated by my beloved wife being taken
borne before me to our Father’s House.
She was yesterday carried by her own people through the garden where she
had her last walk, and laid in peace in a chamber behind the little
church she loved so well—prepared, like Abraham’s cave in Machpelah, by
the kindness of my friends, who worked night and day. . . . The day was
pure and bright, and our dear friend Burnley said it was not like a
funeral at all; everything was so simple and beautiful, with none of the
usual emblems of woe. The service was read by John Hardsley, of
Liverpool, and, in its quietness, came home to our hearts. I was
surprised to see all the surroundings enlivened by her own beautiful
roses and flowers. The flower fadeth, but the word of our God shall
stand for ever.
From all quarters—from high and low, from rich and poor—there poured in
upon Mr. Burns letters of love and sympathy. There were upwards of three
hundred of them, but the following from his old friend Canon Gribble
stands out from the rest, as it contains a vivid sketch of the life and
character of Mrs. Burns :—
Britishi Embassy, Pera, July 13, 1877.
My dear and honoured Friend,—The mail which arrived this morning brought
me an envelope with the well-known initials in the corner. I have been
so long accustomed to receive pleasant notices of matters interesting to
you, and therefore to me, that on opening it I expected a ‘slip’ from a
paper containing a record of some useful work done in Glasgow, or
perhaps a speech from J. B. The enclosure affected me very deeply.
Happily I was alone in my vestry, and could give way to my thoughts;
they were a rush of remembrances, recollections of that admirable
Christian lady, and her rare qualities; love, energy in every Christian
work, with singular power of organisation, with which she was blessed in
no ordinary degree, of doing the work of Christ in the joyous spirit
which threw a charm over all she did, and won for her the love of all
whom she brought under her influence. My next thoughts were of you and
your children. You are now alone, as far as loneliness leaves you in
your old age, without the presence of that bright spirit and happy mind.
Your wife was endowed with no ordinary gifts, and their combination was
remarkable. She had warm love and sound judgment; her tender affection
for you and her family was a type of what St. Paul enjoins as the model
of a Christian matron (see Epistle to Titus). Her piety had its root in
home life, but it was fresh without fussiness, gentle without harshness.
Her excellent common-sense and large-minded view of Christ’s doctrine,
tempered her zeal for the conversion and improvement of her
fellow-creatures; so that, while a pattern ol Christian matrons in home
life, she had discretion in her out-door works for the poor and
distressed. There was ready earnestness for work, and treat ability
without a taint of fanaticism. Your wife had the advantage of a
nature-given intelligence, and strong affection; this, however, of
itself would not have made her the woman she was: the real explanation
of her great power is that she was taught by the Divine Spirit to know
and feel herself a sinner saved by grace, and that Jesus was her
personal Saviour, and love to Jesus was the mainspring of her powerful
action at home and abroad.
Such a perception and feeling of Christ’s love, with her reverence for
God's Holy Word, engrafted on a singularly fine mind, explains the
secret of her power.
My dear Burns, I picture to myself my last visit to you in 1870: you
enjoying your rare taste in gardening; J. B. rushing down on his return
from his work in Glasgow, clasping the dear mother, and whirling her
round on the lawn; she, as young as ever, enjoying the merriment. It was
a happy scene. I picture also to myself you, in your deep sorrow; I see
you in humble prayer, and rising from it with resignation to the will of
God. I see you in your beautiful garden, and imagine what passes through
your mind:
She has been taken before me; I shall soon follow her, and we shall meet
again. I shall die, as she died, in firm faith in Jesus, not having our
own righteousness, but that which is of God by faith in Jesus; our sins
washed out by faith in the blood of Him who was made sin for us, that we
might be made the righteousness of God in Him.'
I am ever affectionately yours,
C. B. Gribble.
Great as was the bereavement of Mr. Burns, the loss, it need not be
said, was keenly felt by his sons. Among the letters they received was
one from their old friend Mr. Laurence Oliphant to Mr. J. Cleland Burns,
in which this characteristic passage occurs :—
I cannot write condolences. There can be nothing more blessed than the
departure of one who, having filled up the full measure of her life in
works of unselfish benevolence, then goes to those still brighter uses
in which she will now be employed. I have no doubt you will feel her
influence remaining with you. We are accustomed to consider death in
such a different light from the world at large, that it is robbed of all
its terrors, and the separation has become so slight between this world
and the other to us, that we scarcely seem to lose those who apparently
leave us. I hope it may be the same with you.
Next to her own family there were none who mourned her loss more deeply
than the poor of Glasgow, and the workers on their behalf. She was Lady
President of the City Mission, and there was scarcely a member of that
mission by whom she was not personally known, one of her greatest
pleasures being to have gatherings of the missionaries from time to time
in her house. But the cause to which her name will ever be pre-eminently
attached was her work among Cabmen, for whose welfare she exerted
herself with increasing care for a quarter of a century, and did more
than any other individual for their social as well as their spiritual
interests. Cabmen’s “Rests ” were introduced into Glasgow through her
instrumentality. She had long regarded sympathising!y the sufferings of
cabmen from the want of shelter during trying weather, and on hearing of
the idea of “Pests,” she lost no time in having them provided in
Glasgow. In proof of the appreciation and gratitude of the cabmen for
all her labours in their behalf, four hundred men connected with the
“hired carriages” of Glasgow presented to her, in 1876, a memorial, and
the following extract from it tersely expresses the feelings of the
community towards her: “The true catholic spirit of your liberality,
which aided the needy irrespective of creed or denomination, is worthy
of the highest admiration.” The Cottage for Incurables at Maryhill, the
Outdoor School for the Blind; and the House of Shelter, were also
specially embraced in the schemes in which she actively interested
herself for the relief of distress and affliction. But her greatest work
was among the individual poor, to whom she was unsparing in her bounty,
and as unostentatious as she was the most cheerful of givers.
On the tombstone of Mrs. Burns there is the simple inscription, “Jane
Burns, died 1st July, 1877, in her 84th year,” and above are the words,
“I dwell among mine own people.” The origin of the selection of that
verse is curious and interesting. Whenever there were grand doings at
the Castle, her son would say, “Come up, mother, and dine with us;” to
which she would sometimes reply, “No, John, I dwell among mine own
people.” The dignity of it, the quiet sarcasm, as it were, in the sense
In which she used it, the grace of it as illustrating her own self-containedness,
all struck her son, who asked his father to allow these words to be
placed upon the tomb.
When, in his prayer on the day of his wife’s death, Mr. Burns had asked
for Divine help to carry out a purpose he had in view, the idea in his
mind was to rear to her memory a permanent church to replace the little
wooden structure that then existed. Not long afterwards the work was
commenced. With great skill the rock was hollowed out behind the spot
where she had been interred, and in course of time there arose one of
the most complete and substantial places of worship in the West of
Scotland, the whole of the design of exterior and interior, by Mr.
Burnet, the architect, being carried out under the direction of Mr.
Burns. It is Gothic in style, and is built of the red sandstone of
Wemyss Bay, the interior walls being of polished red and light-grey
freestone, rare in a building of this size, which has ample pew
accommodation for two hundred persons.
The whole of the interior is in exquisite style, and beautiful in design
and finish. Here the taste of Mr. Burns had ample scope. Over the
elegantly carved teak-wood screen at the back of the chancel are the
Burns and Cleland crests, with their respective mottoes, “Ever ready”
and “Non sibi,” while running under both of them is the text, “I dwell
among mine own people." When the question of decoration came to be
discussed, Mr. Burns would allow nothing in the chancel but a plain
handsome table without any “altar cloth,” nor anywhere in the church a
representation of saints or angels. A handsome stained-glass window, by
Clayton and Bell of London, adorns the western end of the church,
Mr. Burns saw about that time a very beautiful window in the octagon
between the House of Lords and the House of Commons, composed entirely
of various shapes of glass without flowers or figures, and somewhat
after this pattern the large window’ at the west of the church was
designed. The only concession he would make was for the introduction of
a shield, a sword, and a helmet—emblems of the armour of God—the motto
at the foot of the window being, “Put ye on the whole armour of God.”
Mrs. Blackburn, well known as the talented wife of Professor Blackburn
of the University of Glasgow’, and whose drawings, illustrative of
natural history, are famous under the initials of “J. B.,” wais the
first to discover—and she did so at a glance—that a creature had crept
in, and no other than “the lion of the tribe of Judah.”
The situation of the church at the base of the high cliffs near the
shore road, fringed on both sides with trees of rich foliage, is very
beautiful, and every one who knows the West Coast of Scotland has seen
its graceful spire, over a hundred feet high, standing out against its
leafy background, or has heard across the waiters the music of its
eight-bell chimes.
On the 16th of June, 1879, the church was opened for public worship,
when the Rev. J. W. Bardsley (now Bishop of Sodor and Man) officiated.
Not a few were sorry when the little wooden structure, endeared by so
many sacred associations, was no more, although they-could not but feel
that, as the new building stood on the same site, and had been raised
under such touching circumstances, it was in some respects made more
sacred and beloved.
A year after Mr. Gribble had written the letter, from which we have
quoted, on the death of Mrs. Burns, he too was called to his rest, for
'"To live in hearts we leave behind Is not to die.’’
“A man greatly beloved” was Charles Gribble. He was a sailor every inch
of him, with all a sailor’s enthusiasm, unselfishness, and generosity.
When he left St. Jude’s in 1846, he became incumbent of the church
attached to the Sailors’ Home in London —an institution in which the
Prince Consort took a lively interest—and here he remained for ten
years. He loved seamen, and “cared for their souls.” He established a
floating church on the Thames, and at his own expense built and kept a
small schooner yacht, which he fitted up with a view to holding
religious services on board, and in which he used to make constant
excursions among the densely crowded shipping of the river.
On the recommendation of the Archbishop of Canterbury he was appointed
by Lord Clarendon, in 1857, Chaplain to the Embassy at Constantinople, a
post he held uninterruptedly for over twenty-one years. He did a
wonderful work in the Levantine ports, inquiring into the treatment of
British seamen, establishing hospitals and homes, and spending some
months of every year in a cutter of his own, visiting the neglected
seamen of the port, as well as attending to his duties to the Embassy. A
strange and adventurous life he led. During the frequent outbreaks of
cholera he never deserted his post; his house and property were
destroyed in the great lire: and once he narrowly escaped being made
Bishop of Gibraltar.
Mr. Gribble, in writing from Constantinople to Mr. Burns in 1863 to
congratulate him upon his recovery from an attack of small-pox, gives a
hint at the difficulties in his own path and how he overcame them.
I am much occupied here with trials, duties, and cares; these, too, kill
me ever and anon, but the spirit of life comes in again, and then, like
the Two Witnesses, I get upon my legs and prophesy until floored by some
whacking reaction. But by these things men live, and in them is the life
of our spirit.
Mr. Burns had many stories to tell of his old friend. He says : —
Gribble was the most unselfish man I ever knew. One trifling incident
may be taken as a sample of the whole current of his action. Some one
had given him a box of tea, of which he was particularly fond, and he
was found dividing it out, every leaf of it, to people whom he thought
needed it more than himself.
My son John took him out as his guest to Palestine, where they had much
intercourse with Bishop Gobat and Mr. Finn, British Consul in Jerusalem.
One day at the public table in the Holy City my son and Gribble fell in
with an American. They got into conversation about the latitude of
Calcutta, and the American took an opposite view. He insisted upon his
view of the matter, and was most pertinacious on the point. Gribble
struck up and flatly contradicted him; whereupon the American said,
‘Stranger, you know nothing at all about it; I guess it don’t rest with
your profession to talk on that subject.’ Gribble took no notice of the
offensive remark, but went on quietly taking his soup. 'When he had
finished he turned to the American and said, ‘Let me give you a word of
advice, never to talk too strongly unless you know to whom you are
speaking. I was in the East India Company’s Navy, and professionally had
occasion to know the latitude accurately.’
Afterwards my son John, with Alexander Crum Ewing and Gribble went
through the Crimea, where they were entertained at headquarters. John
wished to get into Simferopol immediately after Sebastopol had fallen.
He was told it would be impossible for him to get in unless he was
mounted as a staff-officer. He was thereupon donned in the full costume
and accoutrements, and in this guise rode forward. On his way he got
into the company of another staff-officer, rigged out in the same way.
They challenged each other, and in conversation John satisfied himself
that his companion was an adventurer. On the strength of this he charged
him, ‘Sir, you are an impostor.’ The gentleman, virtuously indignant,
immediately demanded an explanation. ‘I mean, then,’ said John, ‘that
you are the same as myself, that you are no staff-officer.’ It turned
out that the gentleman was a war correspondent well known to fame.
Gribble was a very careless dresser; he would wear a white duck or
canvas coat, and when he was with my son John at headquarters at the
mess, the commanding officer, to the surprise of all, turned to the
canvas-coated gentleman and said, ‘The clergyman will say grace.’
The last service that the Bums family could do for their old friend was,
when his health had broken down from over-work in Constantinople, to
give him a passage home. But the relief came too late; it was with
difficulty he could be got on board, and before the vessel reached Malta
he had gone to his rest. |